Relief is possible — even if stress keeps showing up
Let’s be real — stress is not some new-age thing that only people in suits or startups feel. Our parents, even their parents, have lived with it in different ways. Maybe not about office calls or social media, but they had their own tension — like harvest going wrong, kids falling sick, or dealing with guests for a full week without notice.
I’ve seen it myself. During school exam time, I used to get proper stomach cramps — not because I didn’t study, but just out of nervousness. These days, I get that same feeling if I’m stuck in traffic in the middle of Bengaluru, battery at 1%, and no network to call anyone. Sound familiar?
But over time, I’ve realised one thing — stress won’t disappear completely. It comes in new ways each year, like a regular bill. So better to learn how to manage it calmly, rather than wait for it to vanish.
Why stress keeps visiting even without an invite
Sometimes I feel stress is like that distant uncle who shows up at odd times. No warning, no reason — just appears. Be it summer’s heat messing with your sleep or Diwali work piling up suddenly, it finds a way.
Few reasons it sticks around, in my view:
- One deadline ends, another begins — work just multiplies
- Money issues — some months are tight, no matter how hard you plan
- Health stuff — even a small fever throws off your balance
- Family matters — emotions, expectations, you name it
- No alone-time — we’re always “on”, even at home
Honestly, there’s no fixed season for stress. It doesn’t care if it’s summer or winter. That’s why we need year-round ways to deal with it — not just in January when resolutions are fresh.
Stress relief that actually fits in real life
You don’t need big budgets or fancy planners. Small habits work if you do them regularly. I’ve tried these myself, and they do help — in their own quiet way.
1. Breathing like you’re pausing the world
You don’t need yoga pants or a quiet beach. Just take a few slow breaths wherever you are.
Try this: Breathe in for 4… hold for 4… breathe out slow for 6-7 seconds.
Do this while waiting for your chai to boil or even while brushing your teeth.
Somehow it resets your mood. Like you press a small ‘refresh’ button inside.
2. Go for a walk — not for steps, just peace
Evening walks — not the gym ones, but just casual strolls — really work. A short walk around your block, under the trees, watching kids play, even dogs barking… it changes your state of mind.
Keep the phone aside. Just see the world around — leaves, sky, maybe aunty drying clothes on the line. It’s simple, but calming.
3. Chai breaks that aren’t about chai only
Ten minutes with your tea or filter coffee, just sitting and sipping slowly… it’s healing in a way.
Especially near a window or on the steps of your house. No calls, no scrolling — just staring at nothing. That silence can be louder than any advice.
4. Sleep — still the most ignored solution
We all know it helps. Still, we scroll till 1 AM and then blame the weather for next day’s headache.
Try keeping your phone across the room. Read a few pages of a book — not to finish, but just to relax your eyes and brain. And dinner by 8 PM actually helps more than you think.
5. Talk — even if it’s just one sentence
Sometimes you just want to say, “I’m tired of all this” — and not hear any solutions. That’s valid.
I’ve messaged my friend just to say “I can’t handle today.” And that simple sentence feels like a load off. If nobody’s around, write it down. Notes app, diary, even scrap paper — just release it.
6. Reduce screen-time in small patches
Nobody’s asking you to live in a forest. But even small digital pauses can help.
- No screen while eating
- Mute family groups after 9 PM
- One Sunday a month, use only physical books or newspapers
Bit by bit, it helps your brain feel lighter. Like giving it small holidays.
Old Indian ways that still calm the heart
We don’t always need outside techniques. Many simple things from our own culture already work:
- Tulsi plant at home — peaceful smell, good energy
- Champi once a week — trust me, that oil massage works wonders
- Morning bhajans or soft music — sets the day right
- Eating while sitting on the floor — slows you down, grounds your mood
We often ignore these because they seem too basic. But basic is what works.
What I’ve learned, in short
Managing stress doesn’t mean fighting it. It means recognising it and choosing small ways to ease it.
Some days, I sing old songs while cooking. Other days, I just stare at the ceiling for 15 minutes with no guilt. That’s all.
You don’t need permission to pause. Just take small steps today. Because if stress is your daily guest, then peace must also become your habit.
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